So, I'm scrolling on facebook and see the weirdest bit of information: A couple who had been going out for more than a year broke up. It just kind of sucks. I didn't personally know this couple, but I knew the guy (I had a lot of guy friends growing up so hanging out with guys seems normal to me). Anyway, what was a little weird was that not so long ago his girlfriend requested me on facebook. I was thinking "Chick, I don't even know who you are. Once I start hanging out with your boyfriend you suddenly start to request me?" It made me think of the jealous girlfriend type. She was on her man and trying to stay on top of her game, I guess. The funny thing is that she's not the only one to request me. nope... It's happened on two other occasions. The girls barely knew me but knew that I talked to their boyfriends and had a couple moments with them. The sad part is these couples are no longer together.
My point is the fact the fact that these girls requested me despite the fact they barely knew me made me think that they were being a bit jealous--a little too jealous maybe. Yes, girls, you may categorize it as trying to bond and getting to know their boyfriend's friends, but I see it as having the inability to trust your man. That's where the problem starts. Maybe it's not a coincidence that these couples broke up. One thing I've picked up is that you must be able to trust and withstand distance, or your relationship is going nowhere. Ladies, you'll trust your man if the relationship is meant to be.
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